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Prakash Kothari (Tue Oct 29 20:19:32 1996 IST):

Johnson: No. Some sort of repression is there in every society. What is important is sex education. What I mean by sex education is not only to teaching people to know what they do not know but teaching them to behave as they do not behave. In cities in India you find people more repressed than in the villages. The West is more advanced and they have advanced problems too.

GENIUS (Tue Oct 29 20:19:40 1996 IST):

HEY LIBIDO YOU DONT NEED A TRIP TO KHAJURAHO ANY BACK LANE IN BOMBAY SORRY MUMBAI CAN EXPOSE YOU TO MORE OF IT . WITH THE EXTREMELY HIGH POPULATION DENSITY AND MINIMAL STANDRADS OF PRIVACY ANYTHING GOES IN OPEN VIEW.ADD TO THAT THE BOLLYWOOD SHIT. YOU GOT IT.

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:21:08 1996 IST):

libido is still in victorian days *sigh*

GENIUS (Tue Oct 29 20:21:15 1996 IST):

DR. KOTHARI WHEN YOU SAY REPRESSION YOU REALLY MEAN HYPOCRACY AND DOUBLE STANDARD OF INDIAN SOCIETY DONT YOU?

libido (Tue Oct 29 20:21:48 1996 IST):

Sigh!! Genius I guess you are right....Entertainment of the poor....

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:22:44 1996 IST):

IS IT NORMAL TO LUST AFTER WIVES OF FRIENDS? AND IF THEY DO RESPOND, THEN WHAT?

GENIUS (Tue Oct 29 20:23:06 1996 IST):

EVEN TODAY WE ACT AS IF WE ARE SHOCKED BY NUDITY. BIG DEAL! WE HAD MORE THAN ENOUGH NUDE SCULPTURES AND PAINTINGS IN OLDEN DAYS NOW ONE HUSSAIN PAINTING BECOMES SUCH ROUCUS ROUSER.

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:23:31 1996 IST):

Marijuana , prefer her to any moist vagina

Prakash Kothari (Tue Oct 29 20:24:35 1996 IST):

Rajani: Yes, in my experience of counseling more than 35,000 patients 80% of the women do experience orgasm. To take history of orgasm is not easy. Even today I find it difficult, because different people think of orgasm in a different way and report it in a different way. A woman from the slums came and reported that my husband finishes very fast and I don't get intoxicated. She was comparing orgasm with intoixication. The best is to ask whether she appreciates the feeling enough and nothing more. Vaginal contractions are not the only sign of female orgasm. Orgasm is like a sneeze. If a woman has had one she knows about it otherwise any attempt to explain it is like explaining a rainbow to a blind man.

GENIUS (Tue Oct 29 20:24:46 1996 IST):

Opium Den absolutely see Ramayana and Mahabharat there are plenty of references to that, Wali Sugriva case in point.

mukundan (Tue Oct 29 20:25:22 1996 IST):

Dr. Kothari I am waiting for an answer please

Sheetal (Tue Oct 29 20:25:32 1996 IST):

What's all this crap going on? Why don't we ask the doctor serious things instead of crapping about our own theories!

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:25:38 1996 IST):

over? and out? come and gone?

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:26:05 1996 IST):

PK :
Do u enjoy your sex life after treating so many disorders ??

GENIUS (Tue Oct 29 20:26:45 1996 IST):

So what do you want to ask Dr, Kothari, Sheetal? FRIGIDITY ISSUES?

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:27:03 1996 IST):

Sheetal
Dont take sex seriously !!!!

Prakash Kothari (Tue Oct 29 20:27:08 1996 IST):

Genius: Sex could be procreational, recreational and relational. For procreation you hardly require intellect. For recreational sex you need to have some intellect. And for relational aspect of sex you need to use your grey matter.

jack (Tue Oct 29 20:27:22 1996 IST):

which is the best method of preventing preagence?

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:27:31 1996 IST):

SHEETAL:wHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE THEORY, BABY?THREE?

GENIUS (Tue Oct 29 20:28:04 1996 IST):

WELL SAID DR. KOTHARI, BRAVO!

Sheetal (Tue Oct 29 20:28:07 1996 IST):

What about homosexuality? Is it as widespread as it is made out to be? What are the factors that cause homosexuality here? Is it the same as in the West?

libido (Tue Oct 29 20:28:11 1996 IST):

Why is E-MAIL like the male sex organ?

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:28:27 1996 IST):

jack :
practice safe sex , screw yerself

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:29:06 1996 IST):

LET'S ASK SHEETAL INSTEAD, HEY GUYS?

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:29:14 1996 IST):

Sheetal
God is Gay , so Burn the Flag !! Homophobics suck !

Rajani (Tue Oct 29 20:29:19 1996 IST):

Dr Kothari,till what age are men and women sexually active..I mean the average age?

libido (Tue Oct 29 20:29:19 1996 IST):

Cause sometimes it is up and sometimes it is down. When it is up all can have fun. And when it is down, well...

D Reuben (Tue Oct 29 20:29:39 1996 IST):

Could we abstain from epithets please? One can have this conversation minus all the obscenities.

Prakash Kothari (Tue Oct 29 20:29:40 1996 IST):

Mukundan: It does not decline. Sometimes it may decline because of the lack of the partner's response, increased social and finacial pressure and disturbed liver because of lot of alcohol. But remember libido largely lies between the 2 ears and not between the 2 legs.

eros (Tue Oct 29 20:30:06 1996 IST):

Are indian women more frigid and less likely to orgasm than others. and what do u do to make her orgasm

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:30:07 1996 IST):

libido: i don't kniow, tell me?

Sheetal (Tue Oct 29 20:30:16 1996 IST):

I am not a homophobe.

Prakash Kothari (Tue Oct 29 20:30:34 1996 IST):

Libido: Of course it does. Sometimes it may decline after menopause but that can be revived by food or drugs.

libido (Tue Oct 29 20:30:42 1996 IST):

Is it true that alchohol adds to the sexual drive?

mukundan (Tue Oct 29 20:30:48 1996 IST):

Thank You Dr Kothari

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:31:27 1996 IST):

Dr.Kothari:Are you married? Happily?

Prakash Kothari (Tue Oct 29 20:31:27 1996 IST):

MV: Yes I do. I don't carry office problems to my bedroom!

D Reuben (Tue Oct 29 20:32:05 1996 IST):

Who are the most promiscous among Indian communities? I believe the Punjabis are very ... you know what...

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:32:52 1996 IST):

SHEETAL IS NOT A HOMOPHOBE! CONGRATS, SHEETAL. WHAT ARE YOU? I'M A REFORMED JUNKIE, NOW A CITIZEN..

Prakash Kothari (Tue Oct 29 20:33:02 1996 IST):

Jack: Condom. You can prevent pregnancy as well as AIDS it is like killing two birds with one stone.

libido (Tue Oct 29 20:33:32 1996 IST):

Does it have anything to do with the sort of food one eats?....Do certain foods add to the spice of life, if so which ones? Do tell....

Sambhog (Tue Oct 29 20:33:43 1996 IST):

What is the most peculiar sexual problem you have treated?

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:34:07 1996 IST):

My mommy saw me talking on this chat :(

libido (Tue Oct 29 20:35:27 1996 IST):

MV Bring Daddy on the scene too...en famille

Vatsayana (Tue Oct 29 20:35:32 1996 IST):

What does a lousy sex life do to people? Do you believe the stress of living in cities like Bombay have reflected on lousy sexual performance. What advice would you give a busy executive to enjoy his sex life? This is a man who spends 18, often 19 hours on the move.

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:35:47 1996 IST):

PK
This job sounds to be great fun !!! is it really fun ???

opium den (Tue Oct 29 20:36:47 1996 IST):

MV:How old is your Mommy? Does she need anything from us? Can we keepher busy while you chat?What time does dady get in from office?is your mommy as Punjabi?

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:36:51 1996 IST):

Vatsayana
sex on the move is the soultion !!!

Rajani (Tue Oct 29 20:38:08 1996 IST):

In terms of how many times a week, what would you call a good sexual relationship?

MV (Tue Oct 29 20:38:09 1996 IST):

opium den :
my daddy is with yer mommy , depends on her when he will be back

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